#MoždaTeNeTuče, ali prijeti da će se ubiti kad ga želiš ostaviti

Piše Marina Stojanović,

petak, 13.5.2016. u 13:20

#MoždaTeNeTuče, ali prijeti da će se ubiti kad ga želiš ostaviti

Na Twitteru je pokrenuta cijela lavina ispovijesti žena koje su proživjele psihičko i emocionalno zlostavljanje otkrivajući kako su manipulirali s njima i emotivno ih ucjenjivali

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Hashtag "MaybeHeDoesn'tHitYou (Možda te ne tuče) na Twitteru otvorio je niz "ali.." ispovijesti koje su potvrdile na koje se sve načine emotivno i psihičko nasilje može manifestirati. Zabluda je da emotivno nasilje boli manje - žrtve isto pate i zbog manjka dokaza šute i ostaju u toj zajednici zbog straha, kao i kod fizičkog nasilja.

Mnoštvo žena odlučilo je razotkriti svoja iskustva i tako pomoći drugima da prepoznaju ovaj oblik nasilja.

Ovo su samo neka od iskustava:

#MoždaTeNeTuče ali manipulira s tobom i prijeti da će se ubiti ako ga ostaviš
#MoždaTeNeTuče ali ti nikad ne dopušta da zaboraviš da te uvijek može ostaviti radi neke ljepše, manje "droljaste", manje emotivne, manje oštećene
#MoždaTeNeTuče ali pobrinuo se da budeš sigurna da si preoštećena da bi bila dobra i za kog drugog
#MoždaTeNeTuče ali čini da se osjećaš da su svi tvoji osjećaji i misli glupi i da se moraš ispričavati za njih
#MoždaTeNeTuče, a možda, s vremenom, i hoće.

- Emotivno i psihičko zlostavljanje može biti ekstremno kao i fizičko nasilje - kažu na stranici Nacionalne koalicije protiv nasilja u obitelji.

Čak se oglasilo i nekoliko muškaraca twittajući da je ovo tema vrijedna pozornosti i upozoravajući druge dečke da bi trebali biti bolji.

Pogledajte neke od twittova:

#MaybeHeDoesntHitYou but he controls what u wear, who u talk to, distances u from friends, and tries to make himself the only thing u have.
— Alexis Isabel (@lexi4prez) May 12, 2016

#maybehedoesnthityou but he manipulates you and threatens to commit suicide if you leave him.
— LOAFANGURL101 (@KATHERINEALKA) May 10, 2016

#MaybeHeDoesntHitYou but he never lets you forget that he could leave you for someone prettier, less "slutty," less emotional, less damaged.
— Ella Dawson (@brosandprose) May 9, 2016

#MaybeHeDoesntHitYou but when you're mad at him, he'll still find a way to twist the blame around to you.
— antonio (@antoniodelotero) May 9, 2016

#MaybeHeDoesntHitYou but he makes sure you believe that you're too broken/damaged to ever be wanted by anyone else
— Just Juanita (@Just_Juanita) May 9, 2016

#MaybeHeDoesntHitYou but he makes you feel like all your emotions are stupid and makes you apologize for them
— lindsay (@sloppybankroll) May 9, 2016

#MaybeHeDoesntHitYou but he ridicules your interests and hobbies to the point that he is able to mold you into the woman he wants to be with
— lara (@creepygrrl) May 8, 2016

#MaybeHeDoesntHitYou but he manipulates you into believing YOU'RE hard work & he's a saviour for "putting up with you"
— amelia (@dreamyhoe) May 8, 2016

#MaybeHeDoesntHitYou but he threatens to kill himself when you muster up the strength to leave. So you stay and are manipulated even more.
— Nneka M. Okona (@afrosypaella) May 8, 2016

#MaybeHeDoesntHitYou but he convinces you your family and friends don't love you so he's all you have.
— punjab (@_Kirandeep_) May 4, 2016

#maybehedoesnthityou but the better you get at communicating/cooperating the more he purposely triggers you so you're "the crazy one"
— Hollywood Babalon (@ardensirens) May 4, 2016

#MaybeHeDoesntHitYou but he has genuinely made you fear for your life
— Adina (@adina__08) May 3, 2016

#maybehedoesnthityou and maybe, eventually, he does.
— Laurie Penny (@PennyRed) May 11, 2016

#MaybeHeDoesntHitYou but he uses your weakness of being able to forgive easily so he can walk all over you and he knows you'll never get mad

— sofia (@sofiggle) May 12, 2016

#MaybeHeDoesntHitYou but when you try to tell him how he makes you feel, it becomes what you did wrong & you walk away guilty & invalidated
— Claire Batchelder (@batch_elder) May 12, 2016

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